compatibility

listening to this before zuhr

i agree with kak dina

most important things for marriage are
you and and the other person are compatible in terms of
-thinking
-planning for your future

to me these two things are important, most
after his iman, his akhlak

because, i don't think i can live with a man
whom i could not share ideas
whom i can't debate regarding something
whom completely 'katak bawah tempurung'
whose mind is so disclosed